A Political Prosperity Gospel

You’re sitting in your favorite easy chair flipping through the channels.

Somehow, you stop on a Christian television network that is doing a fundraiser.

The televangelist looks in the camera.

With all the conviction he can muster he states, “With your gift of $1,000, you’re activating the power of God. With that $1,000, claim your miracle. Plant your seed of faith and claim a bountiful harvest. Claim your one million dollars. Claim your health. Claim you wealth. Claim your children. Claim that house you’ve always wanted. Claim victory over your problems.”

You listen long enough and you sheepishly dial the number.

To your own shock, you make a $1,000 gift.

You tell a friend what you did.
You just don’t tell them that you gave a $1,000 but why you did it.
That $1,000 gift will lead to you losing weight, your bank account will receive a million dollars and you’ll get rid of the acne you’ve struggled with for years.
The friend looks at you and says, “You believe in the prosperity gospel?? You’re convinced that by giving some televangelist a thousand dollars that your life will improve??? That you’re going to change your life, without any effort on your part, other than giving someone your credit card???”

You get angry.
You begin to raise your voice at your friend.
“I can’t believe that you don’t believe this!!!!! You’re trying to tell me I’m wrong! But I believe!!!”
Not only do you get angry…not only do you yell…
But you break off all communication with that friend.
You just can’t believe the reaction you’re getting.

You justify your actions by stating, “It’s better to please God than it is a person.”
So, you walk away from the friendship.
And you double down by listening to various evangelists who teach this prosperity message.
You ignore any other viewpoint.

Six months later, your life looks different.
The circle of people you run with has totally changed.
You’re justifying the fact that you never got a return on the $1,000 seed faith gift you placed.
You blame the Devil, a lack of faith, the economy or some other thing that is certainly less powerful than God.

With that little story, I just offended a few people.

Buckle up buttercup, because I’m about to offend a lot more of you.

This is all of us.

EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. OF. US.

Instantly you’ll say, “I don’t believe in the prosperity gospel! I don’t believe God works like that. I’d never give a $1,000 in hopes of a better life or trying to make some deal with God.”

True.

But it does seem we’ve all succumbed to the political prosperity gospel.

Instead of a gift of $1,000 in hopes of a better life, we pledge to vote for our “politician” of choice who promises almost the same things as a televangelist.

We don’t just pledge to vote, we get passionate.

Just like a televangelist tells his audience that life will get better when you give that $1,000 gift, that flashy politician promises a better life when you vote for him or her.
That vote is something sacred, much like that $1,000 faith gift.
You’re believing for lower taxes, better gas prices, more social security, better defense, a stronger Supreme Court or even a return to a stronger moral foundation.

We buy the lie.

We buy the lie deeply.

And then we begin talking to friends and we discover that not everyone believes like we do.
We get angry at the other side.
Not only do we get angry, but we raise our voices and call people stupid and idiots.
We blitz Facebook with post after post proclaiming our so-called truth.
We walk away from friendships because people disagree with us.
Our world becomes small.
Just like people binge on certain televangelists to reinforce their belief, we feast on certain news networks and talking heads to justify our viewpoints.

Two years later when all the changes that were promised haven’t happened, we blame the other party, the economy, some foreign country, big business or some other entity instead of accepting personal responsibility or actually holding people accountable to their word.

We reject the theology of the prosperity gospel.
But embrace the prosperity gospel of politics.

The issue?

Allow me to illustrate the point by using some Christian personalities…

We’re infatuated with the showmanship of Benny Hinn when we need to hear the sermons of Ray Ortlund.

We love the hype and self-help principles given by T.D Jakes when we need the truth from Thabiti Anyabwile.

We grow weary of the non-fiery preaching of the late R.C. Sproul when we long for the feeling that the antics of Rod Parsley can create.

May we listen to Beth Moore and turn away from Joyce Meyer.

In other words, we need more common sense and less circus acts.

Go back and read those names again. You supply the names of politicians and commentators that should be in there. You get the point.

I’m not going to tell you who to vote for.
But I will caution you to lower your passion level for politics.
Untie yourself from a candidate, president or a party. It doesn’t do our hearts any good.
Don’t believe the promises of politicians. They’re nothing more than televangelists peddling a false gospel.

Stop buying the political prosperity gospel.

And for the record, the political prosperity gospel is a problem for both republicans and democrats.

I’m not offering you a better life or a million dollars in your bank account.

I’m asking you to abandon political passions, conspiracy theories and the constant intake of agenda driven talking heads.

I’m inviting you back to common sense.

One more thing, maybe you need to ask for a refund on that $1,000 gift?

Brian
1/13/22

My Top 10 Books for 2021

So, what are my top 10 books for 2021?

#10. “Master Leaders: 30 Leadership Greats, 16 Keys to Success, One Amazing Conversation” by George Barna. This is an older book that I just discovered. Wow. The book drips with nuggets of gold. Page after page filled with wisdom by some of the world’s most noted leaders. This should be required reading for any leader.

#9. “Spurgeon’s Sorrows: Realistic Hope for those who Suffer from Depression” by Zack Eswine. A truly moving book. You walk with Spurgeon through his darkness but also get to see what God was accomplishing through it. An amazing book of hope.

#8. “Soundtracks: The Surprising Solution to Overthinking” by Jon Acuff. If you overthink things, talk down to yourself, preach negative truths to yourself – then buy this book. I’ve been tremendously helped by Acuff’s book.

#7. “Icebound: Shipwrecked at the Edge of the World” by Andrea Pitzer. A true story that will captivate you and make your heart pound with suspense. Critical leadership decisions and the undying human spirit. We are capable of so much more but we fail to realize it until we’re in dire circumstances.

#6. “The Crooked Path to Abolition: Abraham Lincoln and the Antislavery Constitution” by James Oakes. You knew a Lincoln book would make the list, didn’t you? You’ll see how Lincoln grew in his understanding of antislavery and the needle he threaded to accomplish that goal. Very well written. Scholarly. But well worth your time.

#5. “The Bomber Mafia: A Dream, A Temptation, and the Longest Night of the Second World War” by Malcolm Gladwell. I love true stories. Stories that contain sacrifice, failure and triumph. That’s what this book is. None of us get it right the first time. It takes trial and error. There is great cost. Are we willing to pay that cost? A great read with incredible lessons.

#4. “Tempered Resilience: How Leaders are Formed in the Crucible of Change” by Tod Bolsinger. This book is about endurance. How to endure as a leader and to grasp what’s happening to you through the process. Every leader should read this. A great reminder that the battles of today equip you for the struggles of tomorrow.

#3. “Frankenstein” by Mary Shelley with A Guide to Reading & Reflecting by Karen Swallow Prior. The story is nothing like the movies. As you read, you’ll see that Mary Shelley is wrestling with God, why she was created and and the meaning of life. Truly great literature. Purchase the version by Dr. Prior. It’s truly helpful.

#2. “Deeper: Real Change for Real Sinners” by Dane Ortlund. This book is filled with hope. Ortlund unpacks how the Lord works in our lives, why He does it and offers insight and why we should endure. A must read for any believer.

#1. “Courage is calling: Fortune favors the brave” by Ryan Holiday. I’m a big fan of Holiday. He’s a gifted writer who can capture you with a story. He then uses that story to help make a point about growing in life. Holiday’s specialty is stoicism. This book is no different. The lessons are critical. You will grow and be inspired by this book. A truly great read.

Remember, leaders are readers.

Brian

1/3/22

What I Read in 2021

Here’s the entire list of books i read in 2021.

Note…this is not how they’re ranked but the in order in which they were read. I’ll do a top 10 later in the week.

Remember, leaders are readers.

Book list of 2021:

1. The Grumbler’s Guide to Giving Thanks: Reclaiming the Gifts of a Lost Spiritual Discipline by Dustin Crowe

2. Bobby Fischer Teaches Chess by Bobby Fisher

3. How to Get Unstuck: Breaking Free from Barriers to your Productivity by Matt Perman

4. One Blood: Parting Words to the Church on Race and Love – John M. Perkins

5. The Crooked Path to Abolition: Abraham Lincoln and the Antislavery Constitution by James Oakes

6. Spurgeon’s Sorrows: Realistic Hope for those who Suffer from Depression by Zack Eswine

7. Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters and How to Harness it by Ethan Kross

8. Saving Justice: Truth, Transparency, and Trust by James Comey

9. The Leader You Want To Be: Five Essential Principles for Bringing Out Your Best Self Every Day by Amy Jen Su

10. Great Leaders: Inspirational Lessons in Leadership by John Adair

11. The Leader’s Greatest Return: Attracting, Developing and Multiplying Leaders by John C. Maxwell

12. Habits of Grace: Enjoying Jesus through the Spiritual Disciplines by David Mathis

13. Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life by Susan David, PhD

14. The Rise and Fall of the Dinosaurs: A New History of Their Lost World – Steve Brusatte

15. Icebound: Shipwrecked at the Edge of the World by Andrea Pitzer

16. Dark Clouds Deep Mercy: Discovering the Grace of Lament – Mark Vroegop

17. Frankenstein by Mary Shelley with A Guide to Reading & Reflecting by Karen Swallow Prior

18. Not Dark Yet: A DCI Banks Novel by Peter Robinson

19. An Ocean of Grace: A Journey to Easter with Great Voices from the Past by Tim Chester

20. What Is Life? Five Great Ideas in Biology by Paul Nurse

21. Faithful Leaders and the Things that Matter Most by Rico Tice

22. Hot Seat: What I Learned Leading a Great American Company by Jeff Immelt

23. The 12 Traits of the Greats : Mastering the Qualities of Uncommon Achievers by Dave Martin

24. Lincoln in Private: What his most personal reflections tell us about our greatest president by Ronald C. White

25. How y’all doin? Misadventures and Mischief from a Life Well Lived by Leslie Jordan

26. Working Backwards: Insights, Stories, and Secrets from Inside Amazon by Colin Bryar and Bill Carr

27. The Happiest Man on Earth: The Beautiful Life of an Auschwitz Survivor by Eddie Jaku

28. The Bomber Mafia: A Dream, A Temptation, and the Longest Night of the Second World War by Malcolm Gladwell

29. The Devil May Dance by Jake Tapper

30. The Man I Knew: The Amazing Story of George H.W. Bush’s Post-Presidency by Jean Becker

31. Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don’t Know by Adam Grant

32. Tempered Resilience: How Leaders are Formed in the Crucible of Change by Tod Bolsinger

33. The God of the Mundane: Reflections on Ordinary Life for Ordinary People by Matthew B. Redmond

34. What Great Ministry Leaders Get Right: Six Core Competencies You Need to Succeed in Your Calling by Jimmy Dodd and Renaut Van Der Riet

35. Leading in Tough Times: Overcome Even the Greatest Challenges with Courage and Confidence by John C. Maxwell

36. The Gospel Shaped Leader: Leaning on Jesus to Shepherd His People by Scott Thomas

37. First Friends: The Powerful, Unsung (and unelected) People Who Shaped Our Presidents by Gary Ginsberg

38. How Does God Change Us by Dane Ortlund

39. The 10 Stories Great Leaders Tell by Paul Smith

40. Deeper: Real Change for Real Sinners by Dane Ortlund

41. I Love It Here: How Great Leaders Create Organizations Their People Never Want To Leave – Clint Pulver

42. The Way of the Warrior: An Ancient Path to Inner Peace by Erwin McManus

43. Believe in People: Bottom-Up Solutions in a Top-Down World by Charles Koch

44. The Love of God edited by Christopher W Morgan

45. The President and the Freedom Fighter : Abraham Lincoln, Frederick Douglass, and their battle to save America’s soul by Brian Kilmeade

46. On Living Well: Brief Reflections on Wisdom for Walking in the way of a Jesus by Eugene H. Peterson

47. Courage is calling: Fortune favors the brave by Ryan Holiday

48. Hidden Christmas: The surprising truth behind the birth of Christ by Timothy Keller

49. Piercing Leviathan: God’s defeat of evil in the book of Job by Eric Ortlund

50. Soundtracks: The Surprising Solution to Overthinking by Jon Acuff

51. A Small Book About a Big Problem: Meditations on Anger, Patience, and Peace by Edward T Welch

52. Master Leaders: 30 Leadership Greats, 16 Keys to Success, One Amazing Conversation by George Barna

53. Read to Lead by Jeff Brown and Jesse Wisnewski

Honesty about the Holidays

I have always been raw and honest.

So, let’s do this…

To describe my relationship with the holidays, I would sum it up as a love – hate relationship.  

I love the decorations, songs, presents and so on.

I hate the false expectations the holidays bring.  

(Do I really want to type all this?)

Mrs K and I were never able to have kids.  

One reason the holidays are hard for us?  

No kids will ever come home to our house.  

We’ll never open the door to hugs from kids or grandkids.  

Don’t get me wrong, we believe that God has His purposes and plans.  

But it doesn’t mean that His providence isn’t bitter or comes with a sting. 

We have our own traditions and do our best to enjoy the days.  

It isn’t like we’re sitting in our robes, crying our eyes out.  

Not at all.  

But in all our hustle and bustle, there’s a cloud over us.  

A cloud that is a reminder.   

Also, our Dads are gone.  

There’s this grand void in our lives.  

My Dad was the glue of the family.  

Everyone would come together and he’d hold court, tell stories and you’d see his eyes dance with joy. 

That’s gone. 

We did a ton of holidays with our niece and nephew.

They’re grown. Establishing lives of their own. 

We’re proud of them and thankful for the memories.

My Mom is in Ohio visiting her sisters and family.  

For Christmas, we like to bring in both Moms together.

Kayla’s Mom, Lyn, is having a back procedure to block some nerve pain. 

(We’d ask that you pray for her!)

So, we’re trying to get the Moms here in March.

Also, Kayla and I aren’t “employees.”  

We’re leaders. 

There’s a difference. 

As a leader, we work certain holiday weeks so others can have the week off. 

It’s our joy, pleasure and honor to do it.  

This year, Mrs K is working Christmas week so we can honor some of the team. 

Add up all of life and here we are. 

I’m not grumbling or complaining. 

It’s just life. 

Why am I typing all of this?

To tell you that this is life. 

That if you’re experiencing the same thing, it’s okay. 

You’re not alone. 

Don’t believe all the Christmas movies. 

Life changes.  

Death visits families and robs us of loved ones. 

Traditions change. 

Not every family is the Waltons and probably shouldn’t be. 

Time doesn’t stand still for anyone.  

Ann Voskamp wrote that this holiday she would, “set a plate for sorrow.”  

That’s piercing and poignant.  And it makes sense. 

With all that as a backdrop, allow me to say this, Mrs Kayla and I are blessed. 

For all of our struggles and battles, we are blessed indeed. 

We have each other, a great church, friends and family. 

We love our team like they’re family. 

We survived the home renovation process!  

The Lord has blessed us with health.  

We have some amazing memories that we cherish and we’ll create many more if He allows. 

I could go on writing but you get the point.  

Jesus has been good to Brian and Kayla.  

It’s good to remember all that as we experience low points.  

There’s also two truths that will always remain:

  • He loves us
  • He will never leave us

I hope some of you who read this felt seen.

Just know you’re not alone. 

Don’t feel sorry for us. 

Don’t post comments like “So sorry for y’all” and stuff like that. 

We’re blessed indeed.  

But in all the Hallmark movies and filtered photos being posted, I wanted to insert a little reality. 

Own the pain.

Be thankful. 

Laugh.  

Cry.

Watch the parade.

As Mrs Kayla says, “Go buy yourself a pretty on Friday.”

Pray.

Trust. 

This is us.

We are blessed.

Brian

11/24/21

A Harvest of Hope

In Romans 5, Paul writes the following;

“And not only that, but we also boast in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance, endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope. This hope will not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. …” – Romans 5:3-5 CSB

Anyone else feel like the last 18 months have been a season of affliction?

All this trouble.

All the decisions.

Scan Facebook. All the unhappy people.

Paul assures us that God is not wasting this affliction.

Affliction produces endurance.

Because we never quit during these hard days, we’re able to endure even tougher days in the future. It also means that because we endured this season, a future season may seem like a bump in the road.

Endurance produces character.

Because we don’t give up, we get to experience the faithfulness of God. That builds our character. Instead of running scared and hiding, we can stand assured that God has a purpose and is bringing it to pass. We don’t scatter when the waves crash against the rocks for we know the master of the sea.

Character produces hope.

Because of what He has done, I know what He can do. That is hope. Others will need to hear our stories of endurance and deliverance which will result in giving them hope.

This is actually pretty amazing.

We go through crap so that God may produce hope in our heats resulting in our spreading that hope to others.

Our hope is anchored in God’s love.

Love produces hope.

Things may not turn out how we want in this life. That’s fine. We still have hope because heaven is real and we will see Him face to face.

Whatever stress you are under…He’s producing hope.

Whatever affliction you’re walking through…He’s producing hope.

Whatever problem had you awake all night…He’s producing hope.

He’s in control.

He has a process.

He loves us.

Since all that is true, Paul states we can “boast in our afflictions.” Don’t get all arrogant. It simply means we can have confidence that He is accomplishing His purpose during days of confusion and stress.

Endure faithfully and we shall reap a harvest of hope.

Easy never changed the world,

Brian

When Crap Hits the Fan

I’ve taken a few days to consider what happened before writing about it.  Some might say I should take a few more, but here we are.

Last week, I wrote a post advocating mask wearing and linked it to going the extra mile and showing kindness to your neighbor. 

Unbeknownst to me, I entered the nuclear launch codes because missiles began flying.

Publicly, I was accused of mishandling scripture, binding the conscience of believers and living in fear.  

Privately?  

Oh my…oh my…. 

That’s where the fun is.  

Private messages and texts began flying in. 

From people who I thought were friends…

People who work in the same industry as I do…

And from some folks I don’t even know.

What did they say to me regarding that post?

Here’s a sampling…

“Stop living in fear.”

“If you truly believed in science, you’d lose 200 pounds because if you don’t – science says you’ll die.”

“I wish you were dead…like your Dad.”

“Stop believing lies. The scientists are part of a plot to take over our lives. Wake up and see the truth.”

There are at least 25 more messages like those.  

Some with even harsher words.

I’ve spent the last four days shocked, dazed and confused.  

I’ve also spent the last four days blocking people because crazy doesn’t get a key to our house.

A friend called over the weekend too vent.

He’s stepping down at his church.   

Why?  

Because he takes the virus seriously but the rest of the leadership doesn’t. 

He’s been getting phone calls telling him he isn’t a leader and so on.  

Sad.  

So this is where we are as a nation and as people who follow Jesus?

We try to destroy those who disagree with us or at the minimum, shame them into submission.

Getting messages from people saying that they wish I was dead, all because I advocate wearing a mask…and those messages come from people who claim to be Christians…what in the actual H***….

Taking a swipe at my weight and size, that’s classy. 

Before you think I’m weak, just stop.

I can take the heat.  

I lead an organization.  It’s my calling.

I can take the heat.

But I can’t handle the crap.  

Because it is nonsense. 

What do you do when crap hits the fan?

Turn off the fan. 

The vitriol is simply over the top.   

The division is simply too deep.

So here’s where I’ve landed.   

I won’t be having the conversations online anymore.  

Why?

You can’t reason with crazy.  

I honestly believed that logic, reason, common sense and science would win the day.  

I thought people dying would change minds.

Seeing little kids on ventilators and children dying would sway opinions.  

I was wrong.  

It hasn’t changed minds.

It’s simply made us mean and angry.   

K and I will make good choices for the two of us.

I’ll continue to lead PAR and in conjunction with our leaders, we’ll make decisions to keep our teams safe as well as our listeners and donors. 

We’ll continue to advise our Moms on things they should do and not do.

But you won’t get another post from me about Covid, mask wearing and so on. 

Instead of trying to change minds, I’m going to lead quietly and try to take care of those within my orbit.  

I didn’t write this to get sympathy.

Please don’t comment with, “I’m so sorry…” and so on.

I wrote this to beg you to be kind. 

Show grace.

Give mercy. 

Stop throwing crap at people.

It isn’t a good look. 

Brian

9/7/21

Dear America, we’re in a war.

As Americans, we like to win.

Scratch that, we love to win.

But we want to win now.   

We’re not patient with our winning.  

When Japan attacked Pearl Harbor, America was instantly united to enter the war and retaliate.  

Within 90 days, support for the war began to fade.   

Opinions filled the newspapers.   

This has been the case every single time.

The Civil War…World Wars…Vietnam…Korean War…the Gulf Wars….

As citizens, we begin to question the decisions of our generals and military leaders.

Why did they do a ground offensive instead of an air assault?

Couldn’t they have sent troops over the mountains instead of through the desert? Wouldn’t that have saved time?

Why not just bomb the place instead of sending troops? Don’t we have the technology for that?

Why are we using so many troops to combat a nation or terrorist cell that is so small?

Why is the war taking so long?  Shouldn’t we have won by now?

We’ve all either heard those comments.

Some of us may have even said them.

Here’s something I want to propose…isn’t it possible that intelligence agencies and military leadership know things that we don’t know?  

And those things that we don’t know could be fueling the decisions they’re making.  

Common sense tells me that.  

They know the strength of the enemy. 

They get risk assessment reports that tell them if they send troops over the mountain, instead of the desert, that perhaps they’ll lose more soldiers. 

Leadership is dealing with ever-flowing change of the information coming at you.

What was true on day 1 of the war may not be true on day 350.  

And so, you have to adjust your strategy.

And when you adjust a strategy, the general public begins to complain.

We hear comments like:

“Why didn’t we do that in the first place?”
“That general is an idiot. He should be fired.”

Again, we, the general public, don’t have the facts.  

They do. 

So we have to trust the leadership that is in place to make the best decisions possible. 

But we grow impatient and we want the win to happen now.  

Here’s a truth we don’t like: Wars are usually slow and grueling.  

They rarely end quickly.

Because both sides are constantly changing their strategy.  

But we lift our voices in complaint anyway.  

We’re fighting another war.  

It’s a scientific / medical war.   

(Do not stop reading and please don’t roll your eyes.)

We’re in a war with a virus.  

And just like in war, things on the ground change.  

What the leaders of this battle know today is much different than what they knew on day one.  

As your knowledge of the situation grows, your strategy to combat the enemy will change.  

We don’t have all the science in front of us.

We don’t read all the studies.  

(I doubt I could even understand what is being written.)

But our impatience for a solution and a “normal” life has reached a breaking point.  

Welcome to war.  

We want the win, but we don’t want to take the time and wait for the win.  

How dare we be inconvenienced.  

You read comments like, “Why did the CDC change its mind?  Why the change in policy?”

Perhaps they have data that we don’t have.  

They’re seeing results we don’t see.   

Also, perhaps the enemy, the virus, is mutating and changing and that calls for a new strategy.  

For some reason, we’ve lost the ability to nuance in our thinking.   

That maybe the war looks different on day 500 than it did on day 30.   

If that’s true, perhaps the science and medical experts will need to execute a new offesnive.  

Instead, we adopt a posture that the scientists are idiots and treating us like a bunch of a sheep.  

Conspiracy theories begin to explode.  

And remember, conspiracy theories always generate more Facebook likes, youtube views and revenue for radio and cable television hosts.  

For some reason, common sense doesn’t sell very well.   

And so, here we are.  

A divided America.

A divided American Church. 

Families who are screaming at each other. 

People on Facebook and Twitter who comment with the most vicious words that dehumanize people. 

Want to know what all this tells me?

The majority of people don’t get leadership. 

They don’t understand that things change.  

And when things change, the strategy has to change.   

But let’s be honest…we don’t like change.  

Leadership is messy. 

But we don’t like messy.

We want a simple and fast solution that will wrap all this up.

War doesn’t happen like that. 

Life doesn’t happen like that. 

A pandemic and a virus certainly doesn’t operate like that.

Not only are the scientists wading through research projects, interviewing patients, doing research and trying to stay healthy themselves….they’re having to navigate the absolute horrible comments of people who’ve never read a medical report.  On top of that, these medical professionals have families and they’re trying to take care of them as well.  

Why not pray for them instead of ridiculing them? 

Why not send them encouraging cards and letters instead of writing hateful comments on their social media feeds? 

We’re in a war. 

We want to win the war but on our timetable. 

Will we be patient enough to win it? 

Will we listen to those who’ve been to medical school?

Finally, will a conspiracy theory or a talk show host drive us or will common sense win the day?

Brian

7/28/21

The Story Behind “Easy Never Changed the World”

Hands like leather and a sharp quick wit. He couldn’t read or write. His dad died before he was a year old and his mom passed before he was five. Living with his grandparents, he emancipated himself at age 12. (He went to the courthouse and had himself declared an adult.) He got a job “skinning mules”, which means he drove mules as they hauled timber.

He married Pauline. Their oldest child died in a tragic accident at home. The other two, Laverne and Jack, were taught to ride horses, grow a garden, work a rope, hunt, fish and to never be afraid of hard work.

They lived in Ouachita Parish, Louisiana. He was a sharecropper who tended to 15 acres of crops. They lived in a shack of a house for free while he followed a mule plowing rows and nursing cotton.

Later in life, he took a job with the U.S. Forestry service making $1.00 per hour. It was the most income he had ever seen. With that, he leased some land from the government (at a dollar per year…imagine that!) and built a four room house which included a living room, kitchen, two bedrooms. It wasn’t until later that an actual bathroom replaced the outhouse that sat beyond the potato patch.

His name was Jack. He was my grandfather. My Dad’s dad. He did hard things. The garden he grew fed his family. He followed a mule because the crops that he sold would put shoes on their feet and clothes on their back. The pigs and cows on the farm were not a hobby. They were used for trade and food. Hunting and fishing were enjoyed but they were also necessary. He did hard things.

I called him Pa. It was a month or so before his death. I was visiting him in the nursing home. Out of the blue he said, “Boy…I loved your grandmother. I kissed her daily. I raised a family. Put a roof over their heads, fed them and made sure they all went to school. I prayed. Tried to follow God. It was hard. But it was worth it. I have finished well.” I’ll never forget those words. It was hard – but it was worth it. He died some weeks later.

Because my Grandfather was willing to do hard things, my Dad was able to join the Air Force and walk alongside Presidents and Vice-Presidents. I was able to go to college, fall in love with radio and help change the world with the gospel.

You ask why am I so passionate about what I do? One of the reasons is my grandfather. I don’t want to squander his legacy. He did hard things so my Dad and then I could have a shot at a life he never had.

If he could follow a mule, I can have tough conversations. If he could hunt and fish for food for his family, I can have the courage to ask donors to support this ministry. If he could raise a family in poverty and challenge them to do amazing things with their lives, then I can challenge my team to take risks and make a dent in the world. He taught me a lesson. Do hard things. Why? Because easy never changed the world.

Don’t waste the lives God has given you of those you lead.

Fix the culture issues in your building. Get over being afraid to ruffle feathers.

May we not squander the opportunities we have been given.

His name was Jack. He was my Grandpa. He did hard things and because he did not shrink from them…I’m able to write this blog and challenge you.

it’s time to do hard things.

Why?

Easy Never Changed the World.

ENCW –

Brian