The voice on the other end of the phone screamed…
“B!!! AM I GOING TO DIE???!!!!”
The phone rang at 11:30pm.
I had just drifted to sleep after a long day of travel.
He was screaming, “DOES GOD CARE??!!!!”
“IS HE GOING TO LET ME DIE!!???? I HAVE KIDS!!!!!???”
I listened. I just listened.
After he asked his questions and got his stuff on the table, I finally said – “Let me give you three truths.”
“These three truths come from Jerry Bridges and his book Trusting God.
First, God is sovereign. What you’re going through is not surprising God. For some purpose beyond our understanding, He has allowed this season of suffering to enter your life.”
I could hear his wife in the background crying while she also spoke comforting words to him.
“Second, God is wise. He doesn’t just do things willy-nilly. There’s purpose and planning behind His actions. We may not understand His actions but He’s always at work and moving wisely. He isn’t making up the plan as He goes along. He isn’t scrambling hoping history works itself out. He has a plan and He’s bringing it to pass.
Finally, God is loving. He loves you. He cares deeply. With that being said, that doesn’t mean God doesn’t allow pain in our lives. Remember this, the biggest problem you ever had has been solved. Your sin is gone. Jesus has forgiven you. You will not face condemnation. He loves you. He loves your wife and children. No matter what happens, He loves you.
Keep those three truths in mind. Breathe deeply. Rest in Jesus. They don’t answer all your questions…but they’ll help you sleep.”
Who was on the phone?
Me and Mrs K never had kids of our own. (Issue was with me.) But we’ve mentored kids through seminary and college for a number of years, so we have a ton of “kids.”
On the phone was Steve Pupillo, one of our boys.
Steve was 29 when the doctors told him he had tumors in his brain, legs and one in his lung. His world fell apart.
Where was I when I took this call?
I was standing at the foot of my Dad’s hospital bed in Shreveport, Louisiana…ya see, my Dad was fighting cancer and would lose that battle about 90 minutes after I got off the phone with Steve.
Yes, the last thing my Dad heard was me give a mini-sermon to one our “sons”…where I told him that God is sovereign, wise and loving.
That gives me chill bumps.
Dad is in heaven and is completely healed. That tells me God is sovereign, wise and loving.
How is Steve? He’s cancer free. I just texted him this morning.
He’s back to practicing medicine. That tells me God is sovereign, wise and loving.
His wife Sarah and two children are all great.
Why did God allow Steve to get cancer?
I don’t know all the reasons…but I do know one reason…it’s so I could take a phone call at 11:30pm and my Dad could hear about God’s sovereignty, wisdom and love. That’s a grace and mercy of the Lord Jesus.
One more thing…that all happened one year ago TODAY.
If you’re reading this and struggling and doubting…remember…He is sovereign…He is wise…He is loving.
To Steve…love ya young man. Proud of you.
To Dad…love and miss ya Pops.
And Dad…give Sprocket some extra treats today.
Fellow struggler,
B
8/22/19